Today I feel down, so I specifically searched for why people choose to "lie flat." There are many answers, but to sum it up in one sentence: the pressure is too great, the risks are too high, and it’s better to lie flat and live a leisurely life, since we don’t know how to live in the future; it’s better to live in the moment.
When you’re not married, your family urges you, and then the country urges you.
When you are married, your family urges you, and then the country urges you.
Destined to be a person with a hard life, it’s better to lie flat, but you have to live; the children at home need to eat, so you have to get up and keep working.
No one sympathizes with you, and no one understands you. When someone tells you they sympathize with you or understand you, you’ll find that these are just social niceties; just listen and don’t take it seriously. In this era, you can only love yourself.
Don’t say you have a wife (husband); he (she) is the one who loves you the most besides yourself. Do you think what your ancestors left behind is all garbage?
Marriage requires matching social status; couples are like birds of a feather, but when disaster strikes, they fly their separate ways. Are these just empty words? Life has proven the truth of these sayings.
The depersonalization of men is gradually being raised in today’s society. Why is it being raised? Some people have been overly elevated by capital and have lost their direction, compounded by those so-called motivational quotes, making it impossible to extricate themselves.
Lying flat is also a manifestation of depersonalization.
So women must remember, don’t overdo it...
Life is not easy; we carry heavy burdens and move forward. When encountering many unpleasant things, don’t easily look up at the starry sky. This world has no fleeting beauty; there is only the beginning and end of life. Perhaps you shouldn’t have come to this world, or maybe your footing is wrong.
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