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The text discusses the concept of a "sex contract," a legal document created by sexologist and lawyer Ava Cadell, which outlines the rights and obligations between individuals regarding their sexual relationships. It has gained popularity among public figures, especially male athletes, as a way to formalize agreements before engaging in sexual activity. Proponents argue that sex contracts can clarify mutual needs and ensure sexual health by promoting exclusivity and reducing the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. They view it as a rational step, similar to using condoms, to protect oneself from potential issues. Critics, however, believe that sex contracts can create awkwardness and may undermine the beauty of sexual relationships. They argue that it can make the interaction feel transactional rather than intimate, and that it may not effectively prevent deceitful behavior. The text also outlines how to create a sex contract, emphasizing the importance of mutual consent, confidentiality, and addressing potential issues beforehand. Ultimately, the decision to use a sex contract depends on individual preferences and the level of trust between partners.
  1. What is a sex contract?
    A newly emerging legal document that establishes, modifies, and terminates the rights and obligations regarding sexual relationships between equal individuals. It was invented by Los Angeles sexologist and lawyer Ava Cadell. Since the contract's inception, many former American professional athletes have sought out Cadell to sign a "sex contract" before engaging with sexual partners. The sex contract is quietly becoming a written safeguard for male public figures around the world regarding improper sexual relationships.
    Sign a contract before getting into bed
    Reason one: Mutual needs in sexual relationships
    To avoid future troubles, it's better to have one less issue by signing a sex contract. Keeping a record of the agreement makes everything negotiable; feelings are feelings, and sex is sex. After all, without a formal boyfriend or girlfriend, one shouldn't be without even an informal sexual partner.
    Don't assume that the mention of a sex contract means men are afraid of trouble; both parties can clearly outline their requirements, starting from equality. After all, sex should be about mutual needs.
    Reason two: Ensuring both parties' sexual health
    The vast majority of sex contracts will restrict the exclusivity of each other's sexual partners, fundamentally limiting multiple sexual relationships and thereby reducing the likelihood of sexually transmitted diseases. Since adult men and women can take responsibility for their sexual behavior, just like preparing a condom before sex, signing a sex contract is a rational way to insure one's sexual behavior. After all, there are many examples of stars who have suffered greatly, like the man who can't speak out after being wronged.
    Voice one: Why tarnish the beauty of sex?
    A sex contract puts both parties in an awkward position and serves little purpose.
    If a woman only wants to maintain a good sexual relationship with you, presenting a contract for her to sign will ruin her good impression of you, making her think you are overly cautious and suspicious of her; while a woman who truly has ulterior motives would never sign your sex contract. Even if she does sign, she could find loopholes, ultimately leaving you with nothing. No one is a fool. When a woman is determined, a man is no match.
    Sex is a beautiful thing; why make it so formal and procedural? Getting married and obtaining a license is like an invisible wall trapping men; signing a contract for sexual relations is just jumping from one fire pit into another!
    Voice two: Wanting to cheat while avoiding consequences
    A sex contract is clearly a way for men to prepare a clean tissue in advance while wanting to cheat, fearing they might lose control and face endless repercussions. Signing a sex contract is inherently a joke and will serve as evidence later.
    In today's society, where freedom and equality are emphasized, love between men and women is no exception. If both parties feel good, that's fine; if one party is unwilling, there's no point in forcing it. Parting amicably isn't difficult; at worst, just clarify things beforehand. But if you want me to lay out everything in black and white, I definitely can't do that, nor is it necessary. A pleasant experience should not be turned into a transaction or mutual exploitation.
  2. How to sign a sex contract
    A sex contract should first stipulate that this beautiful night and moment are voluntary for both parties, thus we have an obligation to keep each other's confidentiality; we cannot have regrets afterward, leading to unnecessary disputes; if we fail to meet these conditions and cause negative consequences, we will bear legal responsibility.
    Each person's sex contract can vary in specific content, for example, what happens if the sexual method is wrong and causes physical harm? Does the other party have an obligation to use contraception? In the additional clauses of the sex contract, you should negotiate with your sexual partner to write down all possible anticipated consequences in the contract terms.
    Many people will question whether ordinary people need to sign a sex contract. Secondly, will signing a contract ruin the romance and harmonious atmosphere that sex should have?
    The expert who invented the sex contract says that whether to sign depends on your needs. Just like wearing a condom, if you trust your partner enough, you can rely on morality to regulate your sexual behavior. However, if you have some reservations, stating the terms upfront can help manage any potential issues.
    As for whether it will ruin the harmonious atmosphere that sex should have, experts believe that just like the act of wearing a condom, which was once seen as a sign of distrust or excessive rationality in sexual life, it is now widely accepted that two people in love wearing a condom before sex is not about one party not trusting the other but rather about mutual protection;
    Similarly, signing a sex contract serves as protection for both parties, and as long as the two communicate, it won't inherently become a cold act that destroys the tenderness of the moment.
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